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Your children are not your children.<\/span><\/p>\n

They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.<\/span><\/p>\n

They come through you but not from you,<\/span><\/p>\n

And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,<\/span><\/p>\n

For they have their own thoughts.<\/span><\/p>\n

You may house their bodies but not their souls,<\/span><\/p>\n

For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,<\/span><\/p>\n

Which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.<\/span><\/p>\n

You may strive to be like them, <\/span><\/p>\n

But seek not to make them like you.<\/span><\/p>\n

For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are the bows<\/span><\/p>\n

From which your children as living arrows are sent forth.<\/span><\/p>\n

The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends<\/span><\/p>\n

You with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.<\/span><\/p>\n

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