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\u4ec0\u9ebc\u662f\u6709\u5bb3\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2(A toxic relationship)\uff1f<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A toxic relationship is any connection with another person that makes you feel devalued, attacked, and neglected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. \u52a0\u5bb3\u8005\u900f\u904e\u6eba\u611b\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u4f86\u63a7\u5236\u5c0d\u65b9(Love-bombing)\uff1b<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n
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          1. \u4e0d\u65b7\u6e2c\u8a66\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u5fe0\u8aa0\u5ea6\u4ee5\u9042\u884c\u5b8c\u5168\u7684\u63a7\u5236 (Testing loyalty)\uff1b<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n
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                \u6b20\u7f3a\u4eba\u6211\u4efd\u969b(Enmeshment)\u548c\u904e\u5ea6\u76f8\u4e92\u4f9d\u5b58\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2(Codependency)\u662f\u5169\u7a2e\u975e\u5e38\u5178\u578b\u7684\u4e0d\u826f\u7684\u4eba\u969b\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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                No one is dictating your truth, your narrative, or your value. You can trust yourself now. You can sense how wise you have become. You even look different! \u2026 There is passion in your voice. There is a belief in your words. There is a stability in your steps and you realize, as this version of you goes to place their hand on your shoulder, that you have become exactly who you\u2019ve been waiting for in every partner you\u2019ve ever wanted. You\u2019ve become someone who loves themselves, deeply, without contingencies, caveats, or coercion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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                *\uff1aJaime Mahler, \u300aToxic relationship recovery\u300b\uff0c 2023\uff0cAdam\u2019s Media<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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