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\u2018\u2026dignity affects quality of life as much as material resources do. When we think about how to improve society, then, we cannot ignore worth any more than we can poverty or inequality. We need to focus on the extent to which different groups are \u201cseen\u201d by others, whether they have a seat at the table, and whether they are welcomed, valued, and listened to. We know it is possible to do all this because worth is socially determined. That is to say, it is not handed down from above based on neutral criteria. Rather, we decide who matters\u2014all of us, every day, by creating, supporting, and spreading new narratives about the worth of all groups. This is why worth should be factored in explicitly\u2014in every social interaction on the street, as well as every legal and policy decision that our elected officials make.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2018\u2026When I say \u201crecognition,\u2026, I mean \u201cseeing others\u201c and acknowledging people\u2019s existence and positive worth, actively making them visible and valued, reducing their marginalization, and openly integrating them into a group\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u300aSeeing Others\u300b\u7684\u4f5c\u8005Mich\u00e9le Lamont\u6240\u63d0\u7684\u89e3\u6c7a\u65b9\u6848\u662f\uff1a\u5fc5\u9808\u52aa\u529b\u53bb\u5f62\u5851\u6070\u7576\u7684\u654d\u4e8b(naratives)\uff0c\u8b93\u4e0d\u7ba1\u662f\u4f9d\u819a\u8272\u3001\u6027\u5225\u3001\u6027\u50be\u5411\u3001\u8ca7\u5bcc\u3001\u4e16\u4ee3\u5dee\u7570\u3001\u65b0\u820a\u79fb\u6c11\u7b49\u7b49\u6240\u5f62\u6210\u7684\u5404\u7a2e\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u7fa4\u9ad4\uff0c\u90fd\u53ef\u4ee5\u5f97\u5230\u793e\u6703\u7684\u5c0a\u91cd\u548c\u8a8d\u540c(dignity and recognition)\uff0c\u5927\u5bb6\u53ef\u4ee5\u5171\u5b58\u5171\u69ae\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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