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Pursue More of What You Want Most, Less of What You Want Right Now<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Respond More, React Less<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Be More Interested, Be Less Interesting<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Be More Loyal to Principles, Be Less Loyal to People<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Decide More, Deliberate Less<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Appreciate More, Tolerate Less<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Produce More, Consume Less<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Confront More, Complain Less<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Risk More, Regret Less<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Hope More, Expect Less<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Be More Curious, Be Less Certain<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Invest More, Save Less<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Train More, Try Less<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Create More, Critique Less<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Date More, RelationShop Less (and Never, Ever Hook-Up)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Finish More, Start Less<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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You can be perfect, or you can be real; You can hide, or you can heal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2026..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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*: Hal Runkel, Choose your own adulthood, 2016, Greenleaf Book Group Press<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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