{"id":39188,"date":"2024-12-27T14:14:00","date_gmt":"2024-12-27T06:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/damakey.com\/?p=39188"},"modified":"2025-11-17T14:15:46","modified_gmt":"2025-11-17T06:15:46","slug":"how-to-be-perfect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/damakey.com\/?p=39188","title":{"rendered":"How to be perfect"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"677\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/damakey.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/IMG_0716-677x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-39189\" srcset=\"https:\/\/damakey.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/IMG_0716-677x1024.jpeg 677w, https:\/\/damakey.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/IMG_0716-198x300.jpeg 198w, https:\/\/damakey.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/IMG_0716-768x1162.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/damakey.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/IMG_0716-585x885.jpeg 585w, https:\/\/damakey.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/IMG_0716.jpeg 793w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 677px) 100vw, 677px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5b58\u5728\u4e3b\u7fa9\u5927\u5e2b\u6c99\u7279(\u5c1a-\u4fdd\u7f85\u00b7\u590f\u723e\u00b7\u827e\u99ac\u723e\u00b7\u6c99\u7279, Jean-Paul Charles Aymard Sartre, 1905\u20141980\uff09 \u8a8d\u70ba\uff0c\u4eba\u662f\u5168\u7136\u81ea\u7531\u7684\uff0c\u4ed6\u53ef\u4ee5\u81ea\u5df1\u505a\u6c7a\u5b9a\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The religious objection to existentialism doesn&#8217;t take much explanation: Sartre completely denies the presence of any omnipotent God that watches over us or judges our actions. To Sartre, we&#8217;re born out of nothingness\u2014poof!\u2014and then it&#8217;s entirely up to us what we are and do, and then we die-poof!\u2014and that&#8217;s it. Nothing &#8220;guides&#8221; us, we&#8217;re not following any playbook from religion or spirituality or anything. All we have, and all we ultimately are, is the choices we make while we&#8217;re alive. The belief that we exist before there&#8217;s any meaning attached to our lives is a condition Sartre calls &#8220;subjectivity,&#8221; and explains by saying: &#8220;Existence precedes essence.&#8221; The most important conclusion it leads him to is this: if there&#8217;s no giant structure that fills the world with any kind of meaning before or after we exist, then: &#8220;Man is responsible for what he is.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5b97\u6559\u754c\u7576\u7136\u53cd\u5c0d\u5b58\u5728\u4e3b\u7fa9\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6c99\u7279\u8aaa\u4e0a\u5e1d\u5df2\u6b7b\u3002\u4eba\u5728\u51fa\u751f\u4e4b\u524d\u6c92\u6709\u610f\u7fa9(nothing)\uff0c\u6b7b\u5f8c\u4e5f\u6c92\u6709\u610f\u7fa9\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4ed6\u8aaa\u5b58\u5728\u5148\u65bc\u672c\u8cea\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u4eba\u7684\u672c\u8cea\uff0c\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u6703\u8b8a\u6210\u600e\u6a23\uff0c\u662f\u5b58\u5728\u4e4b\u5f8c(\u51fa\u751f\u4e4b\u5f8c\uff09\u5404\u7a2e\u9078\u64c7\u6240\u9020\u6210\u7684\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u4eba\u5fc5\u9808\u5b8c\u5168\u70ba\u81ea\u5df1\u6703\u8b8a\u6210\u600e\u9ebc\u6a23\u7684\u4eba\u8ca0\u8cac\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u963f\u723e\u8c9d\u00b7\u5361\u8b2c(Albert Camus, 1913\u20141960)\u628a\u5b58\u5728\u4e3b\u7fa9\u8aaa\u5f97\u66f4\u7d55\u3002\u6c99\u7279\u96d6\u7136\u8aaa\u4eba\u8981\u81ea\u5df1\u505a\u6c7a\u5b9a\u70ba\u81ea\u5df1\u8ca0\u8cac\uff0c\u4f46\u4ed6\u4e3b\u5f35\u6240\u505a\u7684\u6c7a\u5b9a\u8981\u8003\u616e\u505a\u70ba\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u699c\u6a23\u3002\u5361\u8b2c\u5247\u4e0d\u7136\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Camus broke down his version of existentialism (which, again, he denied it was, blah blah blah) this way: Humans desire meaning from the universe, but the universe is cold and indifferent and denies us that meaning; in fact, nothing &#8220;means&#8221; anything, really, or at least nothing is more &#8220;meaningful&#8221; than anything else. So we&#8217;re just little specks of nothingness on a big dumb rock floating in space, desperately searching for something we&#8217;ll never find, and thus, the human condition is fundamentally absurd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5361\u8b2c\u8aaa\u5b87\u5b99\u662f\u6c92\u6709\u610f\u7fa9\u7684\u3002\u6211\u5011\u4eba\u985e\u53ea\u662f\u98c4\u6d6e\u5728\u592a\u7a7a\u4e2d\u7684\u4e00\u9846\u5927\u77f3\u982d\u4e0a\u4e00\u64ae\u6c92\u6709\u610f\u7fa9\u7684\u6771\u897f\u3002\u6211\u5011\u6e34\u6c42\u5f9e\u4e2d\u5c0b\u627e\u610f\u7fa9\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u537b\u767c\u73fe\u9059\u4e0d\u53ef\u53ca\u3002\u6240\u4ee5\uff0c\u4eba\u985e\u6240\u8655\u7684\u72c0\u6cc1\uff0c\u57fa\u672c\u4e0a\u662f\u8352\u8b2c\u7684(absurd)\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2026Camus says we have three choices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1. We can kill ourselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2. We can embrace some kind of structure\u2014religion, family, work, anything\u2014and find meaning in it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">3. We can acknowledge the fundamental absurdity of human condition, and just kind of exist within it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u9762\u5c0d\u4eba\u985e\u8352\u8b2c\u7684\u5883\u5730\uff0c\u5361\u8b2c\u8a8d\u70ba\u4eba\u53ef\u4ee5\u6709\u4e09\u7a2e\u9078\u64c7\uff1a1. \u7d50\u675f\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u751f\u547d\uff0c2. \u5f9e\u5b97\u6559\u3001\u5bb6\u5ead\u3001\u5de5\u4f5c\u7b49\u7b49\u5730\u65b9\u53bb\u5c0b\u6c42\u4eba\u751f\u7684\u610f\u7fa9\uff0c3. \u627f\u8a8d\u8352\u8b2c\u4e26\u8655\u4e4b\u6cf0\u7136\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u800c\u5176\u5be6\u5728\u5361\u8b2c\u7684\u5fc3\u88cf\uff0c\u8a8d\u70ba\u4eba\u985e\u53ea\u6709\u7b2c\u4e09\u7a2e\u9078\u64c7\uff0c\u627f\u8a8d\u8352\u8b2c\u4e26\u8207\u4e4b\u5171\u8655\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4ed6\u7279\u5730\u8209\u859b\u897f\u5f17\u65af\u7684\u795e\u8a71 (The Myth of Sisyphus)\uff0c\u4f86\u8aaa\u660e\u5eb8\u5eb8\u788c\u788c\u7684\u4eba\u985e\uff0c\u5c31\u6709\u5982\u859b\u897f\u5f17\u65af\u4e00\u6a23\uff0c\u53cd\u8986\u628a\u6ed1\u843d\u7684\u77f3\u982d\u63a8\u5411\u5c71\u982d\uff0c\u90a3\u662f\u591a\u9ebc\u8352\u8b2c\u800c\u6c92\u6709\u610f\u7fa9\u7684\u4e8b\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u800c\u96a8\u8457\u8cc7\u7522\u50f9\u683c\u7684\u98ca\u6f32\uff0c\u5e74\u8f15\u4eba\u751f\u6d3b\u66f4\u56f0\u96e3\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u89ba\u5f97\u672a\u4f86\u6c92\u6709\u5e0c\u671b\u3002\u5bb6\u7121\u6046\u7522\u767d\u624b\u8d77\u5bb6\u7684\u5e74\u8f15\u4eba\uff0c\u548c\u63e1\u6709\u8cc7\u7522\u5750\u64c1\u6295\u8cc7\u6536\u76ca\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u4e5f\u5f62\u6210\u4e86\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u968e\u7d1a\u3002\u53f0\u7063\u5e74\u8f15\u4eba\u9078\u64c7\u7684\u81ea\u7531\uff0c\u5927\u5927\u53d7\u9650\uff0c\u8981\u6c42\u6539\u8b8a\u7684\u8072\u97f3\uff0c\u5df2\u7d93\u7121\u6cd5\u5ffd\u8996\u3002\u5982\u679c\u5e74\u8f15\u52aa\u529b\u5de5\u4f5c\u50c5\u80fd\u7cca\u53e3\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u4e0d\u80fd\u8aaa\u4ed6\u5011\u4e0d\u52aa\u529b\uff0c\u800c\u975e\u5e38\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\u904b\u6c23\u4e0d\u597d\uff0c\u81f3\u5c11\u6c92\u6709\u80fd\u751f\u5728\u53f0\u7063\u7d93\u6fdf\u8d77\u98db\u7684\u5e74\u4ee3\u3002\u3000<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u83ef\u502b\u00b7\u611b\u5fb7\u83ef\u00b7\u5df4\u83f2\u7279(Warren Edward Buffett\uff0c1930-)\u5728\u627f\u8afe\u6350\u51fa99%\u7684\u8ca1\u5bcc\u4f86\u505a\u6148\u5584\u6642\uff0c\u9019\u4f4d\u5927\u5bb6\u5fc3\u76ee\u4e2d\u7684\u6295\u8cc7\u4e4b\u795e\uff0c\u5766\u8aa0\u4ed6\u7684\u6210\u529f\u4e26\u975e\u5b8c\u5168\u662f\u4ed6\u4e00\u5df1\u7684\u52aa\u529b\uff07\u66f4\u591a\u662f\u4f86\u81ea\u904b\u6c23\u548c\u51fa\u751f\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My wealth has come from a combination of living in America, some lucky genes, and compound interest. Both my children and I won what I call the ovarian lottery. (For starters, the odds against my 1930 birth taking place in the U.S. were at least 30 to 1. My being male and white also removed huge obstacles that a majority of Americans then faced.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6211\u7684\u8ca1\u5bcc\u6b78\u56e0\u65bc\uff1a\u6211\u751f\u5728\u7f8e\u570b\u3001\u5e78\u904b\u6709\u597d\u57fa\u56e0\u3001\u52a0\u4e0a\u8ca1\u5bcc\u8907\u5229\u7684\u7d2f\u7a4d\u3002\u6211\u548c\u6211\u7684\u5c0f\u5b69\u90fd\u4e2d\u4e86\u300c\u5375\u5de2\u6a02\u900f\u300d\uff08\u6295\u80ce\u5728\u597d\u4eba\u5bb6\uff09\uff08\u5c0d\u767d\u624b\u8d77\u5bb6\u7684\u4eba\u800c\u8a00\uff0c\u751f\u65bc1930\u5e74\u7684\u7f8e\u570b\uff0c\u5c0d\u6211\u800c\u8a00\u81f3\u5c11\u670930\u500d\u7684\u4e0d\u5229\u3002\u4f46\u662f\u6211\u751f\u70ba\u767d\u4eba\u53c8\u662f\u7537\u6027\uff0c\u5247\u907f\u514d\u4e86\u5927\u591a\u6578\u7f8e\u570b\u4eba\u5728\u6210\u529f\u4e4b\u8def\u4e0a\u6703\u78b0\u5230\u7684\u5404\u7a2e\u5de8\u5927\u969c\u7919\u3002\uff09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u518d\u770b\u770bBill Gates\u7684\u4f8b\u5b50<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most of us would never have heard of Microsoft if any one of a long sequence of improbable events had not occurred. 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We have a car full of groceries\u2014 and thus a functioning car\u2014 and the luxury of posing philosophical questions, instead of having to think only about our health or safety or where we&#8217;re going to find our next meal. If we determine that relative to others we&#8217;re lucky, which means we can afford to do a little extra, then we should do a little extra\u2026\u2026.There are billions of people for whom that isn&#8217;t the case, so we have a duty to pick up the slack. Do a bit more than we&#8217;re ethically required to do. Pay back the gods of luck. 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